My first blog, ever!

Okay, this ought to be interesting.
The hubkins has the computer so this is being done on my iPhone!
Please excuse any auto correct mistakes.

So, the title of my blog is "learning the meaning of 'Charity'".
Why would I choose that?
Okay, I'm going to be nakedly truthful.

I dont like who I've become.

Somewhere through all the struggles of my life I've lost who I really am, what I believe, and where I'm headed.

I'm a poor mother, wife, homemaker, and accountant.
I yell at my kids continually, and last night I found myself wishing that hospitals had a return policy on children; a ten year waranty if you will.

My hubkins doesn't get the love, respect, and treatment he deserves for all the work and sacrifice he makes.

The least I could do is make sure he comes home to a clean house, hot meal, and horny wife.

My house is a wreak!

I've lost the remote for two months and have no clue where might be.

My bank account is a shambles.

No, it is not overdrawn, but there certainly ought to be more money in the savings account than hiding in my couch!


My house, my hubkins, and my girls deserve my attention and love.
Maybe that's the key, I've lost the love and can't find it.

Maybe it's hiding in the black hole with the remote.

Action steps

Okay, how can I work on fixing these problems?

Kids
I've started the total transformation system to help them with their behavior.

House
I'm working on it. My goal is clean before dinner, clean after dinner, and clean before bed. Laundry is a nightly thing instead of as needed.

Husband
Get housework done ahead of time and occupy the kids so that when he gets home I can give him my attention.

Bank
Quit spending $ on nothing! End of story.